"letting go doesn't mean giving up. it means moving on. it is one of the hardest things a person can do. starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. we feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. but as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. we are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. it means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so."

"love is not about finding the right one, but to love the one you've
found.."

there's so much i need to learn from this. despite the advice i was able to churn out of my mind, im still nt good enough to advise myself.every night before i sleep, i would think about how vulnerable this relationship's always been on my part. that im not practising what im preaching. that i've been going back on my words time after time. that im not learning my lessons after each fall. finally, im at a loss as to what to do, only with that evil thought lingering. but i know im never gna resort to that.

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what say you?