"letting go doesn't mean giving up. it means moving on. it is one of the hardest things a person can do. starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. we feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. but as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. we are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. it means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so."

been reading abt horoscope on friendster. this is abt my horoscope today...

It can be very difficult to accept things as they are... there is such a strong feeling deep inside of you that wishes things were different. But things are what they are, and you should not waste any more time trying to make someone else change they way they feel. If you can move past this today, you will feel freer faster. Your independence is of key importance right now, and you are going to want to be unencumbered by emotional dramas. Relish this imperfect situation. It is a gift.

the bottom line: Things are what they are -- don't waste time trying to change them.

true enough..was thinking of changing certain things. but it's really of no use lar. might just make things worst ba i guess..

listening to:the colour of eternal love - japanese ost...(: what say you?